Standing up straight with your shoulders back exerts dominance and confidence. Researchers have shown that physical stature can significantly affect your mood. By keeping a good posture, you will automatically feel confident.
Want to see magic?
Go and smile in the mirror for 10 seconds and see how you automatically feel happy and positive.
Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping.
Research showed that about 60 percent of people forget to take their meds; however, they are good at taking care of their kids and pets. Think about it, take care of them, feed them, wash them when they need it, and the moment you feel they are sick, and you rush to the doctors. So work on your physical and mental if not for yourself, you will be better able to take care of your loved ones.
Make friends with people who want the best for you.
Friends are fantastic; they add excitement, fun, and joy to your life. As they say, “you are the average of five people you spend most of your time with.” For example, a group of men who are friends behave like one another, have similar habits and goals. This puts a greater responsibility on you to choose your friends wisely. If you always hang around with losers and negative people, then in no time you will acquire similar traits.
Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.
We generally assign value to ourselves by comparing it with other people. He has a better car than me; her children are more intelligent; they have a better house; all these comparisons will bring resentment, envy, and sadness. You should strive to become a better version of yourself. Even if you try to grow better at anything by 2 percent each day, you will be twice as good in 35 days.
Do not let your child do anything that makes you dislike them.
At first glance, this rule might sound a little strange. Suppose a child is brought up in one of these ineffective parenting styles. Either permissive or authoritarian. Permissive parents dote on their child even if the child has done something bad or wrong, on the other hand, strict parents impose so many rules and regulations that the child feels they have no sense of reasonable freedom. In both situations, the child will be socially stunted and find it hard to fit into society. So if your child shows behavior and habits that you don’t like, then neither will culture. And they will feel isolated from society. Hence it is essential to confront them and teach them to correct their bad behavior.
Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient.
Life is not fair many times. Everyone goes through suffering. Jordan’s idea of life is, it is not supposed to be happy, it is not supposed to be fair, or fun it is supposed to be meaningful. That means you will suffer, but your suffering will be worth it. Do what is significant, not what is fun and comfortable at the moment.
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