Why You Should Masturbate Before a First Date
No one likes first-date jitters, but pretty much everyone likes masturbation. So how about using masturbation to quell your anxiety before your date? According to experts (and science), masturbation can…
Maybe You Have a ‘Financial Kink’?
I’m a woman on the internet. This means I’ve gotten a DM from a stranger that begins with “hello goddess…” and ends with a request to send me money. While…
8 Ways to Have Fun With a Soft Penis
If you’re to believe what you see in porn, the typical script for sex looks something like this: A man’s partner stimulates him until he has an erection, he penetrates…
How to Squirt (or at Least Try)
If you want to know how to squirt during sex (or whether you even can squirt) it’s not easy to get information. When you google “squirting,” the results are a…
Set These Boundaries With an Overly Affectionate Child
My youngest son tells me and his mother he loves us—a lot. Then he expects a hug after his verbal declaration of affection. Should we forget to embrace him, he…
Five of the Biggest Sex Myths Spreading on TikTok
Maybe TikTok is your go-to place for cleaning and cooking hacks, but you shouldn’t rely on it to help improve your sex life. According to Dr. Claudia Pastides, MBBS, general…
The Best Sex Positions When One of You Is Way Taller
Sex can be awkward even when you’ve got everything going for you, but throw in a significant height difference between you and your partner and you might be facing some…
Does Your Relationship Need a ‘Sexual State of the Union”?
In a recent New York Times article, sex educator Emily Morse recommends couple schedule regular “sexual state of the union” discussions—frank, open dialogues about how their sex life is going…
Your Sex Life Needs Regular Exercise
We all know we should exercise to improve our physical life. But if you needed even more incentive to hit the gym, how about the fact that exercise can also…
You’re Watching Fetish Videos on TikTok Without Even Knowing It
We’ve all seen the videos—life hacks, cooking videos, and more that are so ridiculous you think, “no one would ever actually do that.” Sure, many of them are courting the…