“For me, it had always been difficult to take care of my own self, considering how clumsy and careless I can get sometimes. But after my husband and I tied the knot, it gave me a reality check that now I don’t only have to look after myself but for him as well. And on some occasions, his family stayed with us too, which meant more people to take care of. I don’t think I was ready for this in my first year of marriage!”